Reading Assignment:
- SB Part Four: Chapter I – Earthly Joys and Sorrows
Discussion Questions:
1. According to Spiritism, what is the fundamental reason that we can have only relative happiness while on Earth?
2. What are the two universal ingredients in a standard of happiness applying to all?
3. Discuss Q926 and the statement, “The wealthiest are really those who have the fewest needs.”
4. Dietrich Bonhoeffer wrote:
“Nothing can make up for the absence of someone whom we love … It is nonsense to say that God fills the gap; God doesn’t fill it, but on the contrary, God keeps it empty and so helps us to keep alive our former communion with each other, even at the cost of pain … The dearer and richer our memories, the more difficult the separation. But gratitude changes the pangs of memory into a tranquil joy. The beauties of the past are borne, not as a thorn in the flesh, but as a precious gift in themselves.”
From Q934: “It is a consolation, however, to be able to communicate with your friends through the means available to you.” Have you had any personal experience in communicating with a lost loved one that you would like to share?
5. In what ways does Spiritism help those whose loved ones have died?
6. What role model can help you in dealing with ingratitude?
7. Can it be a help to be less sensitive? What feeling and thoughts does the song “I am a rock” from Simon and Garfunkel evoke for you?
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JKlSVNxLB-A
8. According to Spiritism, does God oblige you to remain in a failed marriage?
9. Why do you think there are so many atheists and materialists in modern times? How can Spiritism help?
10. What concrete guidance does Spiritism offer to someone contemplating suicide?
11. Is laying down one’s life to help another suicide?